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不畏将来,不念过往

乌托邦:

不乱于心,不困于情。不畏将来,不念过往。如此,安好。



如果真的有一天。某个回不来的人消失了。某个离不开的人离开了。也没关系。时间会带你去最正确的人身边。请你先好好爱着自己。然后那个还不知道在哪里的人。会来接你。《岁月的童话》




不乱于心,不困于情。不畏将来,不念过往。如此,安好。——丰子恺《不宠无惊过一生》



年年岁岁花相似,岁岁年年人不同——刘希夷《相和歌辞·白头吟》



人心是不待风吹而自落的花。——吉田兼好《徒然草》



你看到的世界,不是真实的,更何况是别人要你看的。——s·j·沃森《别相信任何人》

很好听的一首歌!!喜欢喜欢

sweetest:

Tino Coury是来自美国的歌手兼作曲家,1988年8月17日生。 

《Circles》这首歌,好喜欢的欢快节奏,Tino Coury充满磁性的声线很有弹性,仿佛四处洒满阳光,听着暖心。这是一首励志歌曲,生活就是一个圈,也像旋转的木马,当遇到低迷时也许只是在原地转圈,但仍要坚强,抛开一切,挥舞翅膀打破这轮转,直到从绝望中看到希望。我对未来的生活充满信心,也许你的心情是灰色的,欣赏歌曲后可能会有所转变。


《Circles》歌词:


Whatcha don't know

Whatcha don't know

Sometimes you gotta live and you gotta let go

Cause I know your best is about to show

Life is just a circle, circle

Better days been gone for a minute

It's hard to see the good when you're so deep in it

I could tell from your face that your spinning

So I gotta let you know, fo oh oh

That all those tears and all those fights

Just take your love to make it right

Cause I know deep down inside

That you're always gonna shine, hey

Whatcha don't know

Whatcha don't know

Sometimes you gotta live and you gotta let go

Cause I know your best is about to show

Life is just a circle, circle

Whatcha don't know

Whatcha don't know

Sometimes it takes long and you gotta ride slow

Cause I know your best is about to show

Life is just a circle, circle

Circle, circle...

All the time on the grind never winning

Taking lots of hits but you still keep swinging

You must be feeling like you reached your limit

So I gotta let you know oh oh oh

That all them thoughts that's in your mind

Can make you dodge a bull and run

If you can leave that all behind

I know you're gonna shine, hey

Whatcha don't know

Whatcha don't know

Sometimes you gotta live and you gotta let go

Cause I know your best is about to show

Life is just a circle, circle

Whatcha don't know

Whatcha don't know

Sometimes it takes long and you gotta ride slow

Cause I know your best is about to show

Life is just a circle, circle

Sometimes I feel my life is like a carousel

Maybe like a ferris wheel

I'm even driving in circles

So I'm just standing still

It's like I broke the damn steering wheel

I gotta get up


I gotta be tough

I gotta be man and still

There ain't no time for stop and staring

There's a lots of pair of doc

Cannot compare to opportunity knocking

When I'm not prepared, squared

Beware the people you keep in your circle

Those cuts on the surface

It's only worth it if it hurts you

Whatcha don't know

Whatcha don't know

Sometimes you gotta live and you gotta let go

Cause I know your best is about to show

Life is just a circle, circle

Whatcha don't know

Whatcha don't know

Sometimes it takes long and you gotta ride slow

Cause I know your best is about to show

Life is just a circle, circle

Whatcha don't know

Whatcha don't know

Sometimes you gotta live and you gotta let go (let go)

Cause I know your best is about to show

Life is just a circle, circle

Whatcha don't know

Whatcha don't know

Sometimes it takes long and you gotta ride slow

Cause I know your best is about to show

Life is just a circle, circle

Circle, circle


愿你永不回头 ——《重返20岁》影评

刺猬猫小妞:

                  

一、【我最美的时候   我已经错过了】

       奶奶曾经的20岁,被生活的苦难压弯了腰,她所有的爱给了怀里的孩子。没有实现自己的歌手梦,也没能和心爱的男人厮守相伴。

       曾经的苦难没有让她放弃生活的勇气,母亲的身份让她坚强的熬过了最惨淡的时光。待艰辛逝去,安稳岁月到来,她却已是迟暮的老人。

      被歧视的弱势群体,被嫌弃的碎碎念,被厌烦的老家伙。

      身子骨不再硬朗,行动迟缓,说话磨磨唧唧,眼神不好,牙口不好,皮肤长满褶子,冒出的老人斑。这都是属于老人的标签。

       可又有谁会常联想到,每个老人也曾经年轻过,也曾经意气风发或者貌美如花,也曾经为了生活打拼,为了爱情挠心挠肺,为了未来拼荆斩棘。

       你一生的经历,最终都会化成一道道皱纹在你脸上留下深深浅浅的沟壑。若你一生善良,待人真诚,不断汲取养分,即使皱纹也能养出温柔感吧。

       所以,

       你若还年轻,多加经历美好的事物,愿你日后成为一个面容温暖的老太太。

       即使错过了最美的时候,也能投射出你美丽的一生。


二、【如果人生能够重来,我还会这样做】       

       即使她当年后悔过选错了职业,留错了城市,甚至嫁错了老公,却从来不曾后悔生下了你。

       这就是母爱。即使被儿子、孙子两代人都榨干也心甘情愿的爱。

       我们总是想着想要活成的样子,却总是被现实拉扯着只能是想想。

       所以,即使时光重来,你还是会过的一样。

       因为现实的阻隔不会变,而你,也不会变。

      你想去旅行,却总因为工作家庭走不开;你想去学习,却总因为聚会外出而被打乱计划;你想要爱情,却总是不敢全心全意付出。

      于是,你依旧日夜呆在繁杂的城市里,几点一线像流水线上的产品;酒杯碰撞间一口口喝下心里的不甘与空虚;到合适的年纪,便与合适的人结婚、生子,你们之间没有矛盾也没有太多回忆,你一心扑在孩子身上,你的一生差不多可以看到尽头。

       这是你想要的人生吗?

       所以,

       你若还年轻,还有犯错与后悔的权力,愿你选择你想要的人生。

       即使岁月无情,打碎了你最初的想象,你也不会后悔你努力过的追求。

             

三、【最永恒的幸福不是拥有你 而是拥有和你有关的回忆】

        奶奶晚年最大的幸福可能就是有李爷的陪伴吧。即使错过了大半生却依旧把她视若珍宝。

        老伴这个词,远比爱情来的真切。

        老伴老伴,老来相伴。

        --“我老了,你还会喜欢我吗?”

        -- “那时候我比你更老”

        杜拉斯说过,那时候,你还很年轻,人人都说你美,现在,我是特为来告诉你,对我来说,我觉得现在你比年轻的时候更美,那时你是年轻女人,与你那时的面貌相比,我更爱你现在备受摧残的面容。

         你们见证过彼此年轻的模样,你们一起在时光的洪流中抓牢彼此的手,你们遇见再大的阻力也深深相信对方。你从不羡慕别人的豪车钻石,却会因为他为你煮的一碗鸡蛋面而感动满怀。这平凡的爱情,才是相伴一生的幸福吧。 

         所以,

         你若还年轻,千万不要怕错过,愿你终身不要将就。

         即使他日后成了脾气古怪的小老头,你还是能打趣告诉孙子,你爷爷年轻时候可帅了。



我今年20多岁,

之前想得多做得少。

愿从今日开始改变,

不怕错过,只怕没有活出自我。

不怕失去,只怕没有努力去获得。

不怕爱你,只怕没有倾尽全力爱过。

这一生,不想回头。

1.14.即使之前看过韩版,知道是翻拍,还是看的泪流满面。可能最近泪点太低了…一部电影,只要能给观众情感共鸣,那么,就已经成功了。